Is it normal to change yourself for beloved man? Or it depends? From my opinion you need to work hard on your relationship but only in case when you can see something in response. I don't trust the opinion that if someone loves you he will accept you whoever you are, with all your flaws and defects in your character. I think that everyone needs to stay himself and not taking as a goal solving problems of lovers. I think that it's the love what it actually is: being close with another person but not confluence with each another - that's definition of "love". So, if you want another person to stay with you, work on yourself and try to be the best version of yourself for your lover, do your best as a sign of a care of your lover, do your best to be deserving the person you love, doesn't your lover deserve the best in that world? So, be that 'THE BEST'.
10 May
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Thinking about being yourself, I want to say that it's difficult to decide who you are. I think that every person is a combination of everything he's surrounded: circumstances, people, emotions, traditions, environment. How to not lose your true personality trying to take the best and refuse the worst of that you're surrounded? How to differ "the worst" and "the best"? You need to be very clever person to filter what's going into your heart and what's need to be refused. And the only way to puzzle out is reading intelligent books, communicating with experienced and interesting people and watching movies with high-quality plots. So that you won't ever notice how yourself will be found even without your expectations.